How to Be Persuasive The 5 Essentials
By : Sally Susman
Earlier this month, I spoke with a group of women who are among the top-ranking colleagues at their companies. The topic? Persuasive discourse.
For leaders, no matter what their line of work, persuasive speech is an essential communications skill. It aims to bring about change in ones understanding, perspective or belief and, ultimately, to prompt them to take action.
For some, speaking persuasively comes naturally. For many, this essential communication skill is developed over time and with practice.
Just as I did with the female leaders, Id like to share the 5 essentials to persuasive discourse that I follow.
1. Root it in Belief
Whatever your point make sure you believe in what youre saying. It is nearly impossible to be effective and persuade others if you dont believe in it.
2. Be Relevant
Timing and context is a critical calculation in persuasive speech. When youre trying to make your point, be aware of relevant and topical issues that are of interest to your audience. Find the connection between what is happening in the world and what you have to say.
Sometimes, the timing wont be right be patient. You dont want to make a great point that is irrelevant and for it to fall on deaf ears.
3. Be Provocative
This essential is a no brainer, but can often get lost in facts and statistics.
When preparing, ask yourself what am I really trying to say? Challenge yourself to answer succinctly and with YOUR unique point of view.
When it comes time to be persuasive the words (and visuals) you choose will be important. Your take on the topic is what will appeal and capture your audiences attention.
4. Write it Yourself
This one is as simple as it sounds. If you are going to express a point of view with the hope to persuade, make sure youre expressing it in your voice, with your words.
5. Float it
Get a sense-check. Share your view with an ally or perhaps someone who holds a different point of view.
Youll either be reassured and ready to go, or have insights that will help you shape your points further.
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